ik via de ander (I through the other)

Because of the Corona measurements, we cannot invite an audience until the 9th of February. Theater companies are allowed to keep rehearsing and livestreaming though, so we will perform some of the cancelled shows online. More about that on this page. We are also looking into planning more performances of Ik via de ander after February.

If you had a ticket for a cancelled show, we will contact you by email to let you know how you can change your ticket to a later date. 


How does your mother talk about you? And about your birth?
What does your father think about the choices you make in life?
How does your sister or brother speak about your relationship together?


In Ik via de ander (I through the other), 28 performers of Theater Babel Rotterdam show themselves in their most vulnerable way. They tell intimate monologues about themselves, through the gaze of the other. Director Paul Röttger has interviewed a family member of every actor about their birth, youth, the life of the actor and their mutual connection. Together with writer Erik Ward Geerlings, Paul has worked out these interviews in monologues.


In a multidisciplinary setting of dance, circus arts and music, and life-size projections, the actors tell their personal stories 1 on 1 with the audience. Ik via de ander is an invitation to get closer to yourself, through the story of the other.


Next to the dance in our theatre, as part of the production, we will also perform a dance in public space: on the square in front of Rotterdam Central Station. The dance on the square is connected to the production, and the production is connected to the dance. This way, Ik via de ander is shared with everyone and our inclusive work literally claims its space in society.



about making reservations:


You can make your reservations for Ik via de ander online. Due to the Corona measurements, we will perform 2 times a day for groups of maximum 15 people.


Normally, we serve a meal after the show, so performers and visitors can meet each other. At this time, we cannot offer a meal due to Corona measurements. We can’t even offer coffee/tea, apple pie or a drink after the show. But what we do offer is a packet with ingredients, so you can make your own meal at home for 4 persons.




Despite Corona closer to the other 


The corona crisis brought director Paul Röttger of Theater Babel Rotterdam to an exceptional idea: actors tell stories about themselves, from an other. ‘Ik via de ander (I through the other)’ is the title of the performance. “We need the other to become ourselves.”


By Willem Pekelder
Translation Brecht Hermans


Paul Röttger (66) had been walking around with the idea for years: to interview family members of actors abóut those actors, and to tell those stories to the audience. Why this ‘detour’ through the other? Because, says Röttger à la Levinas, you need the other to see and become yourself.


Complete in the spirit of corona, the sub-title of the performance will be ‘how you can get very close to the other, and sometimes to yourself, despite the one-and-a-half meters’. Röttger: “Because of the obliged social distancing, we literally and figuratively got further apart from each other. But thanks to our production, you can get closer to the other again.The performer shares his story with the audience, seen from the perspective of the other. This way, you are closer to each other. Especially in this time, that is very important.”


Theater Babel Rotterdam is an inclusive theatre company with thirty actors, from which half with a disability, and of all thirty, one family member was interviewed. Well, actually of twenty-seven, because for three actors the idea came too close. Röttger: “I interviewed fathers, mothers, brothers, sisters, and so on. Every time the question was: how do you see the actor involved, what do you notice about him/her, what do you remember of him/her? The family members were selected by the actors themselves, and theatre maker Erik Ward Geerlings has turned the interviews in beautiful monologues. These have been presented to the family ánd the actors with the question: can we perform this like that? If from all twenty-seven monologues ten sentences have been erased, that’s already a lot.”


About the content of what’s being told, Röttger doesn’t want to reveal too much, but the stories had a big impact on him. “What I noticed, was that there was often a lot of love in the family, but sometimes also enormous pain. A lot of traumas by physical and emotional violence. In this, it didn’t matter whether the actor has a disability or not. Some stories confused me. But most interviews were positive. And what’s great is: you don’t only get to know the actors better, but also the families they came from, and the zeitgeist. The three actors for whom the concept was too intimate, I interviewed about that. And those monologues I will tell myself.”


Starting the 14th of November, the premiere of ‘Ik via de ander’, the actors will perform their monologues. Those always start in the same way: I am this and that, and I will tell the story of my brother/sister/father/etc. about me. This way, the audience will get to hear a unique selection of monologues in one and a half hour.


Looking back, Röttger thinks the other has always been a red thread in his theatre oeuvre. “My first production for the Rotterdam Centre for Theater, as Babel was called back then, was titled ‘The others’, and dealt with the prosecution of homosexuals in the Second World War. That production was about thirty years ago. Our last performance also dealt with the other and being different: the transgender Jessica. I have always been aware of the other, also in myself. In that sense, I have learned a lot from existential philosophers, Levinas in particular: you need the other as a mirror, to become who you want to be, to be free. To get to know the other is essential, especially in these times, in which a lot of people seem trapped in their own self, their status and their social bubble. I can get very angry about the extremely hard world in which we live. I want to show my dream: a world in which it’s all a bit more friendly.”


Röttger thinks ‘Ik via de ander’ is his most personal project. “I have never gotten so close to the actors. Some of them, I’ve known for twenty-five years, and still I learned something new. For the performers as well, the interviews with family members were often a surprise.


What they themselves experienced as beautiful, family members could dislike, and vice versa. Every home carries its burden, and many homes a very big burden. What moves me is what people have coped with, how strong they are or how they have suited themselves in their destiny. Not everything can be made. If you are very traumatized, you no longer have the energy to change your life. ”


The performance starts and ends with a choreography. “I hope”, says Röttger, “that the visitors will see the last dance with different eyes than the first. In the beginning, they do not know the players yet, and they may interpret the dance based on externalities. That’s what we often do, we judge based on the outside alone. But at the end, the visitors have become acquainted with the actors, and they will hopefully see the dancers as human beings, who can be lucky or unlucky, bankrupt or depressed. Just like the visitors themselves. ”



Performance dates


Saturday, October 17 (try-out)

Saturday, October 24 (try-out)

Saturday, November 7 (cancelled)

Saturday, November 14 (cancelled)

Saturday, November 21 (premiere)

Saturday, December 5

Saturday, December 12

Saturday, January 9, 2021 (livestream)

Saturday, January 16 (livestream)

Saturday, January 23 (cancelled)

Saturday, January 30 (cancelled)

Saturday, February 13

Saturday, February 20

Saturday, February 27


More dates to come.


Location: Theater Babel Rotterdam – Eendrachtsstraat 81


Tickets: € 20





The inclusive work and research of Babel is made possible by: Stichting Doen, the Municipality of Rotterdam, the Promotion of Volkskracht foundation, Kickstart culture fund, Pameijer foundation, the VSB fund, the NSGK and HandicapNL.



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About our house rules and your visit to our performance


You can order your tickets on this website.

This is possible for a maximum of 4 people per household.

If you are visiting the performance with someone from another household, order your tickets separately.

Tickets do not have a seat or row number at Babel, but they are reserved seats. At the start of the performance, an employee will assign you a personal place.

You can enter from 30 minutes before the start of the performance.

A health check will take place upon arrival at our theater.

When in doubt about your health, Babel may decide to deny you access.

Wearing a mouth mask is mandatory until you have taken your place in your personal place in the room.

We ask you to put the mask back on when you visit the toilet and after the performance.

There is no wardrobe for this performance, you can keep your coat with you or hang it over your chair.

We serve coffee and tea before the start and an alcoholic or non-alcoholic drink afterwards.

Coffee and tea is included in the ticket and 1 alcoholic or non-alcoholic drink of your choice afterwards.

If you have to go to the toilet, you can wave to one of our employees, he or she will show you the toilet that you can use, we ask you to put the mouth cap back on.

After the performance we ask you to stay seated, drinks will be brought to you.

If you want to leave, we ask you to wave to an employee, he or he will accompany you to the exit, we ask you to keep the mouth mask on.

We comply with the general hygiene regulations of the RIVM. In our theater there is a wide distribution of disinfectant hand gel, soap pumps and paper towels.

Stay at home if you have (mild) health problems such as coughing, sore throat and / or fever. Also stay at home when one of your house members has corona phenomena. If this is the case, please inform us via reserveringen@theaterbabelrotterdam.nl



Do you have a cold, such as a cold in the nose, sore throat, mild cough, elevation and / or shortness of breath on the day before / of the performance? Stay at home and let us know before 09:00 at the latest on the day of the performance via reservations@theaterbabelrotterdam.nl or via 06-14797337. Only with timely notification, you can choose to receive the purchase of your ticket back or exchange it for an alternative date.